After spending all winter in Florida, our plan was to come home to New England sometime in mid-April. The original plan was my wife would fly home on April 13th and I would take a leisurely 2-week road trip home revisiting some historical sites in Georgia and Tennessee.
That plan got thrown out the window in mid-March once everything started getting shut down due to the coronavirus.  Within a few days, all the historical sites I was planning to visit were closed and everything in Nashville was shut down. Each day, states where closing businesses, issuing travel restrictions and implementing stay-at-home orders.
What was to be a familiar journey that we’ve done for years, quickly became a question with an uncertain answer. How and when would we get home?
Stay Put or Go Home
The first thing we had to decide was either hunker down and stay put in Florida or somehow make it home. Our house in Florida was fine for staying put and food/supplies were plentiful. Southwest Florida has significantly less COVID-19 cases and related deaths than our home state. Our chances of getting the virus in Florida were significantly less and we are surrounded by several good hospitals. Being a couple of 65 yr olds, we thought about that for a few days. But the overriding factor was that our family members are all in New England. If our children or someone, like my mother-in-law, got sick, we wanted to be nearby.
I wasn’t that keen on having my wife fly during the COVID-19 outbreak. Airport security lines, gate areas, and a packed plane could be a perfect petri dish for catching something from strangers. We checked with JetBlue and they let us cancel with no penalty. We got a full refund for her ticket which we’ll use next year when we return.
I felt our safest option was to drive home in my RV.  We’d be self-contained with our own food, own beds, and our own bathroom. We just had to make sure that we could travel without violating some state order and get fuel along the way. We picked April 7th as our departure date. It was after April 1st when most snowbirds head north and before Easter.
Navigating the Travel Restrictions
The biggest area of concern was navigating the state stay-at-home orders that were being implemented. Each day a new state was coming out with some type of business closure order, stay-at-home order, or travel restriction order. I read a few of these. Some like Virginia were very specific but Florida and Maryland were somewhat vague. Maryland and New Jersey left much up to the State Police to determine what was allowed and to enforce the order. The question I had was would states allow non-residents to travel through their state on the public roadways to get home. The last thing I wanted was to get stopped and or busted for violating a stay at home order or travel restriction.
So, a week before our planned departure, I began monitoring highway webcams, Facebook RV groups, and state DOT websites to learn about any issues or restrictions with interstate travel. Every day I got feedback that snowbird friends were making it home ok traveling on the roadways without any major issues. Fuel was plentiful and hotels were open. The only issue seemed to be the lack of open restaurants and restrooms. I also prayed about it and was feeling positive that driving home was the right thing and that it would all go fine.
Where to Stay
I made a couple of reservations to stay at RV parks in Florida and South Carolina prior to leaving. I made one in Maryland but a few days before we left, Virginia and Maryland closed all their state parks and private campgrounds. The RV park in Maryland canceled our reservation and closed.
So, I checked the OvernightRVparking online service to find free places to stay while on the road. This app, which I’ve used for several years and is subscription based, shows places where you can park an RV overnight for free. It’s based on current user feedback and shows places like Walmarts, casinos, truck stops, rest areas, and federal lands where you can park for free. The app showed several options (a Walmart, Cracker Barrel, and Rest Area) just north of Baltimore where we could spend the night. I felt confident that we’d be able use one of these for our third overnight.
Hitting the Road
Two days prior to leaving, I parked the RV in our driveway got everything loaded. We closed our house up on Tuesday morning and were on the road by noon.  Florida had come out with a stay-at-home order a few days prior to our departure, but it was targeted at residents and people coming into Florida from coronavirus hotspots like New York, New Jersey, and Connecticut.
Traffic was light on I-75 going north to Tampa. We spent the first night at LazyDays RV Resort in Seffner. The park was open and only about 1/3 full. The restroom and laundry were both open, but only the lobby of the office was open. Reservation packets for incoming people were on a table in the lobby with instructions. One clerk was in the office behind a rope barrier keeping people well away.
We drove 440 miles on Day 2. Our route was north on I-75, then northeast on Rt 301 around Jacksonville, then north on I-95 to Lake Marion in South Carolina. Traffic was again light in Georgia and South Carolina. We saw mostly truckers on the road and a couple of RV’s. We had no issues with getting stopped.
That night, we stayed at the Santee Lakes KOA right on Lake Marion. It’s a beautiful spot. All the amenities were closed (restrooms, laundry. office) and they only allowed self-contained RV’s to stay. We had to call the office to get directions to our site. They had a call-in pizza delivery service in the park. We decide to give them some business and ordered a pizza for dinner, which was delivered to our campsite within 15 mins. Day 2 was behind us and based on how things were going, I was feeling confident that we’d get home without any incident.
Day three was a long day. We stayed on I-95. I wanted to get around Washington and Baltimore. We drove 545 miles. Traffic around the Washington beltway (I-495 east), which normally would have been heavy and backed up, was only moderate. Because my RV carries propane (a hazmat), we had to take the beltway (I-695) around Baltimore. I usually go east over the Francis Scott Key Bridge but there were high winds (50 mph) and an advisory for RVs and empty trailers to avoid it. So we went around Baltimore to the west on I-695. I saw lots of state police on the highway in Maryland but none gave us a look or stopped us. I figure they had no interest in stopping out of state cars.
When we got around Baltimore, my options for overnight were: a Walmart in Edgewood, MD, the Maryland House Rest Area on I-95, or a Cracker Barrel restaurant. We decided on the Cracker Barrel restaurant in Bel-Air, MD. I called and checked with the manager who gave us the ok to park overnight. We ordered takeout dinner from them (chicken and dumplings with veges and biscuits ;)) and spent a nice quiet night in their parking lot with no other cars or trucks.
Day 4 was our last day on the road. We had 359 miles to get home and it was still very windy with 40 mph gusts hitting us broadside. It made driving hard because my RV is high profile and gets pushed around in high winds.
Our route was I-95 to the NJ turnpike, then on I-287 around New York to I-84 thru Connecticut. I planned out our fuel stops because I didn’t want to get out of the vehicle anywhere in NY state. For refueling on the trip I wore gloves once I left the vehicle and then went I reentered, I washed my credit card and then scrubbed my hands. The door handles got sanitized multiple times each day followed by more hand washing.
For fueling on this day, I stopped midway on the NJ turnpike and had the attendance pump the fuel while I wore a mask, I then refueled one last tine in Middelbury CT with a mask and gloves.
Finally Home
We made it home on Friday, April 10th, which was my birthday. It was stressful driving all day in the high winds. We were both exhausted and felt like zombies from the long days behind the wheel. But we were home safe and healthy.
So, that’s what it was like driving during this time. Normally, it’s a routine trip and this trip did go smoothly. it was just the uncertainty and unkowns that caused a level of anxiety. Thankfully no states had closed their borders. And God was with us and we thank him for getting us home safely.
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I’m in a campervan with TX plates, holed-up in MD and wanting to drive to VA in 2 weeks . . . was wondering what would happen if I hit the road, so thank you for your story!
I think you’ll be fine moving down to VA as long as you have a place to stay.
Terri, what part of Md. are you staying. I full time in my Roadtrek camper van. I live here in Md. Last I read or heard on news was crossing state lines required a self quarantine for designated time. I would note, this has to be on a honor system, I dont see how it can be enforced.
Ray
Annapolis Md U.S.A
Glad you made it home! Stay safe! We enjoy your blog! Thank you.
Hank from Ortonville, MI
A fun adventure for all of us to read! So enjoyed it. Please share with us the app for finding the free place to park.
Thank You
‘There’s no place like home’ ~Dorthy
A few long driving days, but safely home. We’ve been shut down since March 8th, I’d love a road trip! thanks for providing a virtual outing.
Thank you, for sharing this lovely story, Jim. As I read your story I could see God’s guidance and directions. You painted a clear picture and there were many times I thought that you might get stuck or stopped by cops. Superb writing brother! I don’t know if you and Anne experienced anxiety or me because you brought emotions and human reality to your story. You gave your story suspense and relatable experiences. I’m glad you are both home safe. Welcome back to NE! Glory be to God.
Hey, Jim. I forgot to mention that perhaps God did not want you to get stopped because of the people of CSUMC hope to see you and hear you read the Gospel on Easter Sunday. Also, great job singing solo on Sunday. Blessings.
Prior to leaving, I prayed for guidance. Once on the road, I had a very positive feeling that things would go well for us and that God was by our side all the way.
My wife had not traveled with me in the RV for a few years. She’s not into road trips and gets easily bored. One of the things we did to deal with the boredom and help the miles click by was to sing. Using youtube videos as our karaoke machine we sang BeeGee songs, Hank Jr. songs, James Taylor songs, Carole King, Elton John, etc. We also “tied” to sing Whitney Houston songs. Her songs are tough because she has such incredible range and power in her voice. We didn’t do well with her songs but it did give me some inspiration to sing this past Sunday. Whitney got her start singing gospel songs as a young girl at her church.
I’m glad you and your wife made it home safely. We’re planning to leave Florida mid-May. But I have a feeling we may end up staying here all summer.
I seem to recall you have some family in FL that you’re near. There’s much less Covid-19 in FL and it’s less crazy than here in the north east.
J Dawg, you certainly put in some serious miles per day on that trip ! 😊
Ray
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Yes. Typically, I like to drive no more than 350 miles per day. With limited overnight options, we had to hurry home.
Great story… mine is weird. Over winter I packed up all my belongings to move aboard a little Vista VW Winnie to hit the riad as a traveling artist on April 1. Seemed appropriate. Gave up apartment, accustomed cat to rv, set up worktable instead of sofa, moved in art supplies and teaching materials, And ready! Set! Go nowhere! Everything closed. So lucky me, friends offered a hookup in the country about 30 minutes from my mailbox, and there I sit. Now I’m restless, wanting to roll away, enjoy my time seeing, painting, doodling (my term for watercolor sketching) and teaching! where and when do I just go? I appreciate your story about seeking out legalities by state. I have homework. I missed the part about you using any dump station, so I need that info. And I’d love to find out about your blog and advertising connections to help your gasoline fund. My website will be changing soon but for now, ThePortablePainter.com will do. The WiFi in the country is spotty, so that is one reason I need to roll away! I have a hotspot, and Apple phone but no cell towers nearby for Verizon. I am Northern California coast!
Sorry to that you had to put living your dream on hold. It must be frustrating. But it’s a hold not a cancel. For dumping on my last trip, I dumped in SC at the RV park we stayed at. Then I did the final dump at a Welcome Center in CT. There used to be an app for dump stations but it was not up to date. I usually find a camp ground to dump at. Also, many Pilot and Flying J Travel Center have fee paid dump stations. Many highway rest areas in the mid western states have dump stations. The only revenue I get from my blog is from Amazon affiliate ads and links. It’s not much. Thanks for commenting. I’ll check out your website.
J. Dawg
J.Dawg,
I’m getting ready to travel from Sacramento to Southern Massachusetts.You seem very knowledgeable about the roadway,especially around your area.
I’d like to miss the congestion of going through New York.Is there a route you’d suggest,north of New York that I’d enjoy and then drive south into southern Massachusetts?Brimfield to be exact.
I really appreciated your sharing your travel from Florida.It’s enjoyable just reading of your adventures.You adventure writing skills are very good.
Thank you.
Well, if I was doing that drive, from Cleveland, I head southeast and pick up I-80 to go across much of PA toll-free. On I-80 in PA, there’s a couple of Pilot and Flying J truck stops to spend the night. Just south of Wilkes-Barre, get on I-81 north to I-84 east. Take I-84 east to Newburgh. From there, you can take I-84 across CT but I don’t care for that road. A prettier ride is at Newburgh take I-87 north along the Hudson. Getting off the highway (I-87) and exploring the backroads up the Hudson Valley is a very pretty ride on either side. Just south of Albany take I-90 into Mass. That’s also a pretty drive into Sturbridge MA. Good luck with your drive.
J. Dawg
J. Dawg, we ended up with a similar situation this spring. We drive an RV to our winter home in Arizona each Dec. When it came time to head home to Oregon in April we were concerned about the trip but glad we had the RV. Gloves at gas stations and avoided California. We just stop at rest areas or wide spots along the road to avoid all contact with others that is possible. Had a good trip home.